To summarize the post, it is about a picture of this one girl, unknown age, race and nationality who actually sparks a debate in stomp. What sparks the debate is her clothing and the place and time she went.

In the picture, she was wearing a transparent malay traditional top, in which it is supposed to be worn with a tank top or spaghetti strap or any tight fitting top. However, I guess she wants to be unique and to attract boys, guys, perverts, old man, she wears it WITH a bra.

The things that sparks the debate is the place and the time she is in.

Assuming she is a malay and she wears that kind of clothes for visiting. It is really a shame to your own race, your family and your relatives. Of course, pervert boys and guys will drool. But, it means you do not have any respect towards yourself and your elders. It actually tells us that you are thoughtless, in simple term you are plain stupid. You seek for forgiveness, but what you are wearing is an insult to the elders. Yes, you may argue, its a modern time, we have to open up. (Off the track first, how modern can you be if you are marrying at the age of 18-23?) However, there are limitations. Hari Raya Aidilfitri is a festive season for muslims, as they seek forgiveness as they are still heathy after fasting for a month. Its a sin for every muslims to wear revealing clothes. Of course, I know I am not that religious, and I'm sure most of us, are just like me, but at least we have the initiative to wear a decent clothes when visiting. We know that we are respecting ourselves and our elders. Thus, it is totally wrong for her, a malay muslim who should know better on what to wear for visiting.

Lets assume she is a malay but not muslim and she is just enjoying her time with her friends or relatives visiting. Still, she is in the wrong, for its still a muslim festival. Same goes for non-muslim-malays. My non-muslim-malay friends wore a suitable and decent clothes, even though its not our malay traditional clothes. Respect the festival and respect your elders. By the way, its funny how people refused to fast during fasting month, but still celebrating hari raya until the end of september. Even now, at week 4, the end of the month, you can still see young people in large groups, wearing the traditional clothes. I wonder, did they fast?

So lets assume she is Malay or Chinese or Caucasian or whichever race. She was asked to attend the company dinner or high class dinner or an inaugural. She wears that. What do you all think?

Although we are in a 21st century, fashion forward and in modern zone, but still we have to at least respect each and every religion. From the clothes we wear to the stuffs they do. Wear an appropriate clothes at an appropriate events.

That looks like she is going clubbing, in the afternoon.

Cheers!

I feel like all my youth energy was drained just like that. No wonder, a lot of people committed suicide. Now I know how they feel. I will do it, but I know I wont, because I will confirm go to hell. Depressed, anxious, stressed. Fuck, I do not even know how to smile or joke properly or even think properly.

Its not the assignments that are killing me. Its the grades, the marks, the questions of the quizzes. I have four quizzes so far. I failed all fucking four quizzes. I know I failed them, because I have no fucking idea what the fuck the questions are asking me. Two maths quizzes are gone, one Computer Science - Programming Language is gone, although I have not yet seen the results yet, but I know I failed, because the questions are ridiculous and my favourite Computer Science - Computer, is consider a failure for me since 68% is the passing mark. I get 62%. Its the easiest questions, I had a careless mistake.

Seriously I do not know whether to be punch myself. I'm so angry at myself and I feel so stress. Its only three weeks I've been in this school, I feel like giving up. I hate failing, I hate not being the best, I hate not getting A, but now getting a passing mark is enough for me to go through my 2 and a half years in Digipen.

Its really a wake-up call. Welcome to life in University. No matter what I just have to keep telling myself to not give up, work smart and push myself for the better.

I really need a holiday, but I have no money. I've stupidly answer some questions in my phone, and I have to pay 44 bucks for nothing. FML.

Hari Raya Weekend, was fun and exciting. I met my cousins, eat great foods, wear new clothes and well, although i'm big, but i still do get collection! Since, I'm a student! =)

I shall let the pictures do the talking aite! =)

Lets take an example.

1st:

A very good friend of mine (surprisingly), just broke up with his girlfriend. Thus, he thought it is right for him to text me everyday. Asking me what am I doing, how am I doing...etc. If you say you are just a friend, you dont keep on text messaging people about stuffs that normally your boyfriend or girlfriend will ask you, do you?. I mean, of course it does not matter if its like once in a bluemoon or simply you are trying to be concern for that person. But, wait. While you were with your girlfriend, did you message me like how you did it recently? Nope. You rarely message me and even when I message you, you give me a reason "My girl doesnt like it". I respect that, so be it. If I can respect your feelings, why can't you respect my feelings?. Don't blame me for not being an understanding girl. We all have feelings. But if you need me just for the sake of loneliness, in which I know this one is, then I'm sorry. Yes, I'll admit I'm not a good friend. I rather not be a good friend, then pretend to be one.

2nd:

The situation is almost the same as the 1st. However, it was depressing, as it has to do with lying.

It happen to one of my very close friend. When she had problem with her boyfriend, I'll make sure I'm there for her, even though I know sometimes I cant cheer her up. I do not mind that, for she have been there for me when I need her. Things went wrong. She keep telling me and her boyfriend that she is working, whenever I want to meet her. I believe her. Of course, the boyfriend does not. He accused her of cheating. Me, being a very good friend defend her saying that she's working and she wont have the time to date other guys. Little did I know, she was actually seeing someone. The problem does not die there. Again, I ask her when she's free, she told me she'll give me the answer asap. But until now, I hardly hear any news from her. I guess, maybe because she have a new guy? If she do not have a new guy, I'm sure she'll spend time with me.

Lying to me? Yes. Taking me for granted? Yes. Using me? Yes. So what are we now?

So, if you happen to be one of the people, either in case 1 or 2, please do not act friendly to me or else you yourself will get hurt. Never take your friends for granted. Even when you are in relationship, do not put your friends aside. Someday you might need them, but you can't find them.

So, I'm sorry to these people. But enough is enough. I too have feelings. Respect my feelings and I will respect yours. I will be nice, if you are nice to me. So to these people, I hope you forgive me, for being harsh for Hari Raya is coming. I do forgive you, but I do not want to be your close or good friends anymore.

Even now, as old as I am. As mature as I think I am. I'm naive enough to trust people and believing all their lies. Ever since those incidence, where people just love to misuse my trust, taking me for granted, people have been lying to me, even my very close friend. I shall not pin-point, but you yourself will know who you are, for I cant tell whether its true you are lying or whether you are telling the truth. Whereas all these while, I've been nicer to them, defending them and worst believing them. Now, because of this, I find myself hard to trust anyone. Especially those who have done wrong. Because it can happen again, and I just wouldnt know whether to take all you words seriously.

When there's no trust between you and them, you find it hard to be satisfied. Somehow, you know they are lying, and they are not telling you the real truth. But, when you want to ask them further questions, you will think twice, for you will feel that, that person might get hurt when you don't trust them. Thus, making life complicated.

So, how am I supposed to trust people now? When all the while, they've been taking me for granted. Lying to me. It really frustrate me a lot. So, tell me how? Should I trust you?

I'm really am disappointed when I heard the news. For all these years, I have defended you, thinking that you need someone and you need to change. But there you are, lying to me.

I am those people who refuse to believe or see people's bad behaviour. I tend to want to believe them that they will change for the good. So, i thought you will. But I guess, i've been wasting my time.

What we had was a great moment. You seemed to be able to understand me. We seemed to get along well, even though we are the opposites of each other.

Seriously, I'm disappointed at you. You seemed to be too busy nowadays. And I doubt you are not busy with work.

i dont know whether i'm taking the right course!

i mean, i'm taking A, C, F or whatever the higher maths are known as!

i'm taking programming C++ in which i have no idea whether its the same as my other programming..

even in poly, i hate JAVA especially in sem 2, when its the indian faci who taught you and you have no idea what is he talking about and he is harsh and easily irritable when we do not understand a single thing!

i mean, i am worried. and its only the first day!. i do not have any idea what the hell my lecturer is talking about for my maths. simply because he's an american, he talks fast and he teaches complicated ways.

and most of my classmates seems to know what they are doing.

HELP!

*switch to happy mode*

but on the other hand,

i'm studying english which doesnt relate to programming or maths

i'm studying psychology which is an interesting topic

and my computer study module lasted for only 5 weeks, meaning my monday is free! =)

Some people, when they just got a boyfriend or girlfriend, first thing they will do is TELL EVERYONE, especially their EX. Perhaps, to make their EX feel jealous?

So, they will tell you that they are happy to have someone. That is fine. Then, in a few weeks, they will tell you that they are happy as they are going to get engaged. Fine. That's great news to hear that. But, then, in another few weeks time, they will tell you that they are breaking up, they are having a problem and they are depressed. Well, we as friends will give you encouraging words. But, of course it does not end there. After this sad news, they were back together. Which is a good news, then later, they will tell you they are going to get married. Then, after that they will tell you, they are breaking up. And the cycle goes on and on. Until I told that person, tell me when you have register for ROM. =)

Dear Mr Mohammad Syafiq Bin Azman aka MY lovely bear,

I've been unfair to you lately with my blog post. It seems that the only way for me to venge my anger, is through blog. I am really sorry for all the negative blog post, making you the bad person.

We might have our ups and downs, but we try our best to go through it together and find the best solution to solve them. It hurts to be mad at you and to feel disappointed.

However, I have no regrets too being with you. For you are the most sweetest and caring person ever. I may not count the days we have been together, but I count the moments we have been together. Moments where you treat me to a great movie, restaurants, teasing each other and generally spending time with you.

You may not be the first priority in my life. As what I've told you, my family always comes first. Followed by you and my close friends. But of course, if you were to be my husband, you are my first priority. However, I hope you understand that the reason why I love to go out with my friends is because I need them too in my life as they need me in their life. I made a promise to myself to be there for them, even though I have you in my life. Friends are hard to find, yet they are easy to lose.

I may not be the best girlfriend you ever had. But, I'm willing to try my best to fill your life with laughter and not sorrow. Forgive me for sometimes I am stubborn.

Being with you for 5 months, you showed me how to love that person. Now, I know where I belong in your heart. With that I end my letter to you with a collage of you and me.

Your Sincerely,

Wardha

PS: Someday I will kill Angelina Jolie.

To summarize the post, it is about a picture of this one girl, unknown age, race and nationality who actually sparks a debate in stomp. What sparks the debate is her clothing and the place and time she went.

In the picture, she was wearing a transparent malay traditional top, in which it is supposed to be worn with a tank top or spaghetti strap or any tight fitting top. However, I guess she wants to be unique and to attract boys, guys, perverts, old man, she wears it WITH a bra.

The things that sparks the debate is the place and the time she is in.

Assuming she is a malay and she wears that kind of clothes for visiting. It is really a shame to your own race, your family and your relatives. Of course, pervert boys and guys will drool. But, it means you do not have any respect towards yourself and your elders. It actually tells us that you are thoughtless, in simple term you are plain stupid. You seek for forgiveness, but what you are wearing is an insult to the elders. Yes, you may argue, its a modern time, we have to open up. (Off the track first, how modern can you be if you are marrying at the age of 18-23?) However, there are limitations. Hari Raya Aidilfitri is a festive season for muslims, as they seek forgiveness as they are still heathy after fasting for a month. Its a sin for every muslims to wear revealing clothes. Of course, I know I am not that religious, and I'm sure most of us, are just like me, but at least we have the initiative to wear a decent clothes when visiting. We know that we are respecting ourselves and our elders. Thus, it is totally wrong for her, a malay muslim who should know better on what to wear for visiting.

Lets assume she is a malay but not muslim and she is just enjoying her time with her friends or relatives visiting. Still, she is in the wrong, for its still a muslim festival. Same goes for non-muslim-malays. My non-muslim-malay friends wore a suitable and decent clothes, even though its not our malay traditional clothes. Respect the festival and respect your elders. By the way, its funny how people refused to fast during fasting month, but still celebrating hari raya until the end of september. Even now, at week 4, the end of the month, you can still see young people in large groups, wearing the traditional clothes. I wonder, did they fast?

So lets assume she is Malay or Chinese or Caucasian or whichever race. She was asked to attend the company dinner or high class dinner or an inaugural. She wears that. What do you all think?

Although we are in a 21st century, fashion forward and in modern zone, but still we have to at least respect each and every religion. From the clothes we wear to the stuffs they do. Wear an appropriate clothes at an appropriate events.

That looks like she is going clubbing, in the afternoon.

Cheers!

I feel like all my youth energy was drained just like that. No wonder, a lot of people committed suicide. Now I know how they feel. I will do it, but I know I wont, because I will confirm go to hell. Depressed, anxious, stressed. Fuck, I do not even know how to smile or joke properly or even think properly.

Its not the assignments that are killing me. Its the grades, the marks, the questions of the quizzes. I have four quizzes so far. I failed all fucking four quizzes. I know I failed them, because I have no fucking idea what the fuck the questions are asking me. Two maths quizzes are gone, one Computer Science - Programming Language is gone, although I have not yet seen the results yet, but I know I failed, because the questions are ridiculous and my favourite Computer Science - Computer, is consider a failure for me since 68% is the passing mark. I get 62%. Its the easiest questions, I had a careless mistake.

Seriously I do not know whether to be punch myself. I'm so angry at myself and I feel so stress. Its only three weeks I've been in this school, I feel like giving up. I hate failing, I hate not being the best, I hate not getting A, but now getting a passing mark is enough for me to go through my 2 and a half years in Digipen.

Its really a wake-up call. Welcome to life in University. No matter what I just have to keep telling myself to not give up, work smart and push myself for the better.

I really need a holiday, but I have no money. I've stupidly answer some questions in my phone, and I have to pay 44 bucks for nothing. FML.

Hari Raya Weekend, was fun and exciting. I met my cousins, eat great foods, wear new clothes and well, although i'm big, but i still do get collection! Since, I'm a student! =)

I shall let the pictures do the talking aite! =)

Lets take an example.

1st:

A very good friend of mine (surprisingly), just broke up with his girlfriend. Thus, he thought it is right for him to text me everyday. Asking me what am I doing, how am I doing...etc. If you say you are just a friend, you dont keep on text messaging people about stuffs that normally your boyfriend or girlfriend will ask you, do you?. I mean, of course it does not matter if its like once in a bluemoon or simply you are trying to be concern for that person. But, wait. While you were with your girlfriend, did you message me like how you did it recently? Nope. You rarely message me and even when I message you, you give me a reason "My girl doesnt like it". I respect that, so be it. If I can respect your feelings, why can't you respect my feelings?. Don't blame me for not being an understanding girl. We all have feelings. But if you need me just for the sake of loneliness, in which I know this one is, then I'm sorry. Yes, I'll admit I'm not a good friend. I rather not be a good friend, then pretend to be one.

2nd:

The situation is almost the same as the 1st. However, it was depressing, as it has to do with lying.

It happen to one of my very close friend. When she had problem with her boyfriend, I'll make sure I'm there for her, even though I know sometimes I cant cheer her up. I do not mind that, for she have been there for me when I need her. Things went wrong. She keep telling me and her boyfriend that she is working, whenever I want to meet her. I believe her. Of course, the boyfriend does not. He accused her of cheating. Me, being a very good friend defend her saying that she's working and she wont have the time to date other guys. Little did I know, she was actually seeing someone. The problem does not die there. Again, I ask her when she's free, she told me she'll give me the answer asap. But until now, I hardly hear any news from her. I guess, maybe because she have a new guy? If she do not have a new guy, I'm sure she'll spend time with me.

Lying to me? Yes. Taking me for granted? Yes. Using me? Yes. So what are we now?

So, if you happen to be one of the people, either in case 1 or 2, please do not act friendly to me or else you yourself will get hurt. Never take your friends for granted. Even when you are in relationship, do not put your friends aside. Someday you might need them, but you can't find them.

So, I'm sorry to these people. But enough is enough. I too have feelings. Respect my feelings and I will respect yours. I will be nice, if you are nice to me. So to these people, I hope you forgive me, for being harsh for Hari Raya is coming. I do forgive you, but I do not want to be your close or good friends anymore.

Even now, as old as I am. As mature as I think I am. I'm naive enough to trust people and believing all their lies. Ever since those incidence, where people just love to misuse my trust, taking me for granted, people have been lying to me, even my very close friend. I shall not pin-point, but you yourself will know who you are, for I cant tell whether its true you are lying or whether you are telling the truth. Whereas all these while, I've been nicer to them, defending them and worst believing them. Now, because of this, I find myself hard to trust anyone. Especially those who have done wrong. Because it can happen again, and I just wouldnt know whether to take all you words seriously.

When there's no trust between you and them, you find it hard to be satisfied. Somehow, you know they are lying, and they are not telling you the real truth. But, when you want to ask them further questions, you will think twice, for you will feel that, that person might get hurt when you don't trust them. Thus, making life complicated.

So, how am I supposed to trust people now? When all the while, they've been taking me for granted. Lying to me. It really frustrate me a lot. So, tell me how? Should I trust you?

I'm really am disappointed when I heard the news. For all these years, I have defended you, thinking that you need someone and you need to change. But there you are, lying to me.

I am those people who refuse to believe or see people's bad behaviour. I tend to want to believe them that they will change for the good. So, i thought you will. But I guess, i've been wasting my time.

What we had was a great moment. You seemed to be able to understand me. We seemed to get along well, even though we are the opposites of each other.

Seriously, I'm disappointed at you. You seemed to be too busy nowadays. And I doubt you are not busy with work.

i dont know whether i'm taking the right course!

i mean, i'm taking A, C, F or whatever the higher maths are known as!

i'm taking programming C++ in which i have no idea whether its the same as my other programming..

even in poly, i hate JAVA especially in sem 2, when its the indian faci who taught you and you have no idea what is he talking about and he is harsh and easily irritable when we do not understand a single thing!

i mean, i am worried. and its only the first day!. i do not have any idea what the hell my lecturer is talking about for my maths. simply because he's an american, he talks fast and he teaches complicated ways.

and most of my classmates seems to know what they are doing.

HELP!

*switch to happy mode*

but on the other hand,

i'm studying english which doesnt relate to programming or maths

i'm studying psychology which is an interesting topic

and my computer study module lasted for only 5 weeks, meaning my monday is free! =)

Some people, when they just got a boyfriend or girlfriend, first thing they will do is TELL EVERYONE, especially their EX. Perhaps, to make their EX feel jealous?

So, they will tell you that they are happy to have someone. That is fine. Then, in a few weeks, they will tell you that they are happy as they are going to get engaged. Fine. That's great news to hear that. But, then, in another few weeks time, they will tell you that they are breaking up, they are having a problem and they are depressed. Well, we as friends will give you encouraging words. But, of course it does not end there. After this sad news, they were back together. Which is a good news, then later, they will tell you they are going to get married. Then, after that they will tell you, they are breaking up. And the cycle goes on and on. Until I told that person, tell me when you have register for ROM. =)

Dear Mr Mohammad Syafiq Bin Azman aka MY lovely bear,

I've been unfair to you lately with my blog post. It seems that the only way for me to venge my anger, is through blog. I am really sorry for all the negative blog post, making you the bad person.

We might have our ups and downs, but we try our best to go through it together and find the best solution to solve them. It hurts to be mad at you and to feel disappointed.

However, I have no regrets too being with you. For you are the most sweetest and caring person ever. I may not count the days we have been together, but I count the moments we have been together. Moments where you treat me to a great movie, restaurants, teasing each other and generally spending time with you.

You may not be the first priority in my life. As what I've told you, my family always comes first. Followed by you and my close friends. But of course, if you were to be my husband, you are my first priority. However, I hope you understand that the reason why I love to go out with my friends is because I need them too in my life as they need me in their life. I made a promise to myself to be there for them, even though I have you in my life. Friends are hard to find, yet they are easy to lose.

I may not be the best girlfriend you ever had. But, I'm willing to try my best to fill your life with laughter and not sorrow. Forgive me for sometimes I am stubborn.

Being with you for 5 months, you showed me how to love that person. Now, I know where I belong in your heart. With that I end my letter to you with a collage of you and me.

Your Sincerely,

Wardha

PS: Someday I will kill Angelina Jolie.